Excerpts About Separation Anxiety
Pearl Beyond Price, p. 214 • discuss »
Generally speaking, when an adult wants to resist separation and individuation, he resorts primarily to negative merging. Negative merging is still merging. One can always activate it at times of separation anxiety. It is painful, manifesting in frustrating affects and emotional conflicts, but when it is used for defense against separation, one feels mother is around, and therefore feels secure in some way, even though the mother might be angry or hateful.
Pearl Beyond Price, p. 250 • discuss »