Self-Realization
More specifically, self-realization is a manifestation of a certain
human development, a development tantamount to the full maturation
of humanness, which a human being may attain or arrive at. (The
Point of Existence, pg 5)

In self-realization our experience of ourselves is a pure act
of consciousness. We know ourselves by directly being ourselves.
All self-images have been rendered transparent and we no longer
identify with any construct in the mind. There is no reactivity
to past, present or future. There is no effort to be ourselves.
There is no interference with our experience, no manipulation,
no activity – inner or outer – involved with maintaining
our identity. We simply are. We are able to respond, feel, think,
act – but from a purely spontaneous and authentic Presence.
We are not defensive, not judging ourselves, not trying to live
up to any standard. We may also be silent, empty or spacious.
We do not have to do anything to be ourselves. We are whole, one,
undivided. It is not the wholeness of the harmony of parts, but
the wholeness of singlehood. We are one. We are ourselves. We
are being. We simply are. (The Point of Existence, pg 16)

Self-realization is identity with the Essence of the self, which
is Presence. (The Point of Existence, pg 24)

Self-realization and Being
Full self-realization means the complete realization of the fullness
of Being. By fullness of Being, we mean Being in its totality
and completeness, including all of its dimensions and aspects.
This is finally realized in the resolution of oral narcissism
as the self-realization of nondual Presence. (The Point of Existence,
pg 397)

Self-realization and body
In full self-realization we experience the body as a transparent
and diaphanous form of Presence. The form is seen to be more superficial
than the ontological reality of Presence, which is beyond any
form. This experience of the body is not easy to access; it involves
a leap of consciousness that generally requires a great deal of
inner work such as decades of intense meditation practice. (The
Point of Existence, pg 75)

Self-realization and states
To arrive at self-realization is not a matter of trying to get
somewhere; it is not a question of working to actualize a specific
state. If we engage in the process of self-realization from the
perspective that there is an end-state to realize, we tend to
interfere with the process. To attempt to generate or move towards
a certain state indicates holding a particular conceptual position.
(The Point of Existence, pg 352)

States of self-realization can occur in many dimensions. Self-realization
can be on the individual level, on any of the boundless dimensions,
or on a non-dual level. The basic element, common to experiences
of realization in all the dimensions is a sense of not being concerned
about reality, of not being concerned about who you are. There
is a sense of certainty about yourself and about your perception
of reality. It also manifests as a sense of completeness, as a
sense of things making sense, as a sense of having meaning to
yourself, to your life and to your world without necessarily knowing
what the meaning is. Everything has an implicit sense of meaning,
value and preciousness; there is no questioning of it. Your life
originates from this sense of meaningfulness, significance, and
preciousness that is implicit and not questioned. Your life, your
action, your activity and creativity originate from the pure and
certain sense of significance to your world and who you are. (Diamond
Heart Book 3, pg 102)

Self-realization and support
In order for realization to become a permanent attainment there
needs to be support for realization. This is the reason it is
possible to achieve a state of self-realization and to lose it
-- you don't have the support for it. (Diamond Heart Book 3, pg
102)

Self-Realization and understanding
Realization and liberation require many things: dedication and
commitment, love and devotion, awareness and sensitivity. But
more than anything else, they require understanding. Understanding
is the central faculty needed for liberation, especially when
we go very deep in our experience and arrive at subtle places.
That is because when we reach the subtlety of our true nature
– the real depth – what is left is our understanding.
Everything else, in some sense, has dropped away by then. All
that is left is our subtle capacity for discriminating what is
manifesting, what is true, and what is false. (Spacecruiser Inquiry,
pg 401)