A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W Y

 

Fakeness
False Pearl
False Will
Falsehood
Fear
Feeling
Flexibility
Flow
Forgetting
Form
Formless
Formless Realms
Fountain of Knowledge
Fragmentation
Freedom
Friend
Frustrating Obj. Relation
Frustration
Fulfillment
Functioning
Fundamental Narcissism

Frustrating Object Relation

The libidinal object relation is the structure of this desire soul wanting a wonderful, yummy, and completely desirable object. The object appears here as beautiful and desirable in an animal instinctual way, full and luscious. Its prototype is the engorged, youthful and turned-on breast, full of milk, thick juicy nectars, robust energy and aliveness. It is a full and gleaming breast, desirable and inviting. It promises to give the soul the object she needs, the object that will satisfy her hunger and give her erotic pleasure. The libidinal soul loves this object passionately and wants to gobble it up with gusto and total satisfaction. It is clear that the dominant genetic stage for this structure is the early oral stage, the characteristics of which pattern this structure. What makes this structure become split off is not only its unabashedly animal and instinctual nature, but the frustration that results when the soul is unable to get the desired object. The affect coloring the libidinal object relation is the combination of total libidinal desire combined with the intolerable frustration of unrequited love and desire. (Inner Journey Home, pg 207)