Self-Sacrifice
Self-sacrifice is not only a matter of serving the truth. In
some sense, it is the perception of the truth. To truly perceive
the truth, there must be some kind of self-sacrifice, because
perceiving the truth is realizing that the truth is something
bigger than the self, beyond the self, which ultimately abolishes
the self. To see the truth is to see that the self does not exist
in the way we think that it exists. Then we see also that a true
life is not the life we have conceived of. Self-sacrifice is not
a matter of suffering. In fact, if we see self-sacrifice as painful,
we are still not seeing the truth completely. It is bound to be
painful for a long time. It will become less painful. After a
while, self-sacrifice is an impulse that arises out of love for
reality. When it becomes truly understood, it is a joyful thing
to sacrifice yourself to the truth. (Diamond Heart Book 4, pg
357)

There is no self-sacrifice, not a hint of personal renunciation,
but he is not selfish, not self-centered and not preoccupied
with himself. His service is the expression of love, compassion,
and truth. But he does not necessarily feel that is why he serves.
He does not even think that he is serving. Love, compassion and
truth are the constituents of his personal beingness. He is all
of Essence, and so does not need to think of it or of acting
according to its values. That is what it means to be a person
of Being, the essential person. He is a precious pearl, rare
and incomparable. (The Pearl Beyond Price)

When I say self-sacrifice, I don’t mean that you have
to be a victim, or that you have to suffer, or have a hard time.
That’s not the idea here. Self-sacrifice means choosing
the truth over the false. You sacrifice what is false to the
truth. (Diamond Heart Book 4)