Seeking
The world is full of seekers whose identity is wrapped up in
seeking wisdom, truth, or enlightenment. This is basically the
same as seeking riches, beauty, fame, love, or recognition. The
purpose of all of these identifications is to fill emptiness.
But if you could look at the situation with complete sincerity,
if you could just see what is really there without the props,
you would give yourself a little chance of finding true intrinsic
meaning. (Diamond Heart Book 3, pg 42)

Understanding and seeking
Understanding, itself, is very simple. Understanding is there
when you are not searching. You do not need to look for understanding;
it is not something to pursue. You do not have to make efforts
to have insights. Your efforts are not rewarded with realizations.
Understandings, realizations, and insights appear when you are
relaxed, when for a moment you have stopped your seeking. (Diamond
Heart Book 4, pg 25)