Reality
There is no physical reality that exists on its own, somehow
separated from another world underneath or above it. The exclusively
physical, materialist perspective is a partial perspective created
by eliminating the other perspectives. In reality, it is one world.
If you see the creation in its totality, it is a unity. If you
see only its surface, you see the world of objects. So, eliminating
the subtle perceptions eliminates the oneness, the unity that
is an intrinsic aspect of the nature of all that exists. We are
seeing, then, in some detail, what is meant when spiritual teachings
say that we are prisoners of our senses… To know that the
physical perspective is only partial is not to devalue the physical,
but to allow the possibility that there are other perspectives.
We actually need to include other perspectives or dimensions to
enable our physical senses to function clearly. (Diamond Heart
Book 4, pg 310)

Objective Reality
In objective reality there is no such thing as the physical world
that we know. If we experience our body without the filter of
ordinary knowledge, we will not experience a physical body; we
will experience a fluid patterning of luminosity. Our experience
is so conditioned and determined, that not only do we believe
we have and are a body, we believe in something more basic that
underlies this belief: that the body is that body as we take it
to be. For most people this is absolutely true: the body is physical
matter that is born and hurts and dies. From that kind of view,
how can we possibly think of it as a fluid patterning of luminosity?
This is just an example, maybe a little extreme, to tell us how
far the patterning of ordinary knowledge goes. (Spacecruiser Inquiry,
pg 70)

Reality and discrimination
True reality is a presence that has self-pervasive awareness
that possesses at the same time a discriminating knowingness.
This fact, which is important for inquiry, can be recognized in
your own personal experience. Your normal experience is of being
a person with awareness and the capacity to discriminate. But
this discrimination is not a result of the mind’s labels;
the labeling comes later. The inherent discrimination happens
as a part of the awareness. You might discriminate the pattern
of a tree outside your window and call it a tree, but your ability
to discern the pattern of the tree is already there before you
call it a tree. It is the same with the capacity to discriminate
your inner impressions, such as various emotions, sensations and
thoughts. (Spacecruiser Inquiry, P 39)

Reality and experience
Reality is one. The reality of who we are is the reality of everyone
else, of all beings, all that exists. There are no people in reality,
there is just reality. The fundamental reality is a complete,
unconditional state of oneness, which is a completely nonconceptual
way of perceiving and being. If we do not believe anything, if
we become completely separate from the mind which is the product
of the past, if we become truly alone, then we see how reality
is. Then you do not experience yourself as the person who was
born to these particular parents. You experience yourself as never
being born. You see yourself as undying. You see everything as
undying. There is only one reality, and there is no one there
to say it is one. (Diamond Heart Book 4, pg 179)

Reality and experiencing another
It is possible to be an emptiness where you can experience someone
completely because you become them completely. There is no position
which gets in the way of the experience. When you have no point
of view, you can look at a flower and know a flower completely,
without reaction or judgments. This perspective where there is
complete openness to things, without the rigidity of a point of
view, is reality. This is the absence of rejection, judgments,
suffering and restriction. This openness allows Essence in all
its manifestations. (Diamond Heart Book 2, pg 143)