Psychological Constellations
Psychological constellations will present themselves both inside
-- as emotional conflicts and physical tension -- and outside
-- as difficulties, conflicts, issues, dissatisfactions, and lack
of understanding of the environment and the people in it... the
psychological constellation, when understood exactly for what
it is, will lead spontaneously to a related hole of the personality,
which the individual will experience emotionally as a certain
lack or deficiency, usually defended against by various antics.
Acceptance of this hole leads to experiencing the personality
as an emptiness. This emptiness, this void, is like a death for
the personality. It is actually a death of the particular sector
of the personality but is experienced psychologically as an overall
death of the personality. When this "death" is completely
understood and accepted, the corresponding aspect of Essence emerges
and fills the emptiness left by the personality. (Essence, pg
146)