Oedipal Narcissism
We discriminate this form of narcissism because it involves alienation
from the essential Presence that arises at the oedipal stage,
which is different from the quality of Personal Essence that dominates
in the rapprochement phase of the separation-individuation process,
and which is related to individuation narcissism. (The Point of
Existence, pg 371)

Our understanding of the development of oedipal narcissism, then,
is that the oedipal self becomes weakened and distorted in the
absence or inadequacy of appropriate mirroring and support. The
self develops without integrating the qualities and capacities
that emerge at this stage of development, or it develops with
distortions that impel it to compulsively and unsuccessfully seek
mirroring and supportive self-objects for these manifestations
of the self. (The Point of Existence, pg 374)