Individuation Narcissism
Individuation narcissism manifests as the need for support for
individuation, and as the need for mirroring of one's skills and
capacities, and as grandiose ideas about one's qualities, skills,
talents, and accomplishments. One is narcissistic in relation
to one's competence and capacity, as well as in relation to one's
sense of being. (The Point of Existence, pg 363)

Individuation narcissism and grandiosity
Precocious development that alienates one's capacities from one's
sense of self is another dynamic in the development of individuation
narcissism... We find that in this form of narcissism, grandiosity
is used as a defense against the sense of inadequacy and deficiency
that underlies the precocious development.... The sense of inadequacy
characterizes the emptiness connected with the absence of Personal
Essence, while feeling adequate and mature characterizes its presence.
(The Point of Existence, pg 366)

Individuation narcissism and Personal Essence
Individuation narcissism is associated with the lack of development
of what we call the "Personal Essence." This is a manifestation
of essential Presence in which -- like Essential Identity -- we
experience "I am" but here, the emphasis in experience
is more on the "am" than on the "I." It is
a Presence of fullness, substantiality and well being. I am, as
Personal Presence; I experience myself as a person, but this person
is not patterned by self-representations. The Personal Essence
is a Presence of the self as a person, a human individual with
unique qualities and capacities. This person is an ontological
Presence of pure consciousness. (The Point of Existence, pg 362)